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Family and Friends Remember

It’s 1am, and I’ve just put down the phone after another call from a Waterford family, sharing their loss and the life lived. These calls never get easier, and they shouldn’t, because behind every call is a person, a family, and a lifetime of love, memories, and stories.

And that’s what Family and Friends Remember is all about.

At Falconers Undertakers, we believe that every life deserves more than just a notice. Every person we serve has loved deeply, laughed fully, and left a mark on those around them. Their story deserves to be told with care, with warmth, and with the same love their family and friends still hold for them.

More Than Words
Writing Family and Friends Remember isn’t just something we do, it’s something we feel. When a family sits with us, when we read the messages people leave, and when we listen to the stories shared, we don’t just take notes. We take the time to understand.
What did they love? What made them smile? What stories do their friends still tell, laughing through the tears?

For me, this is more than a service, it’s a mission. I know what loss feels like. I know how hard it is to put into words what someone meant to you. And I know how much it matters that they are remembered as they truly were, not just by their name, but by their spirit, their humour, and the love they gave.

That’s why I sit in the quiet hours of the night, piecing together the words that will matter most to a grieving family.
Because when we say goodbye, it should never be with a generic tribute. It should be personal.

Going Above and Beyond for Every Family
Grief is different for everyone, and so is the way we remember. That’s why at Falconers, we go beyond what any other funeral director does. We don’t just provide a service, we make sure every family feels supported, every story is honoured, and every life is remembered in a way that truly reflects the person they were.

It could be a love of music, a devotion to family, a passion for a motorbike, or just the simple joy of a good cup of tea with friends. Whatever made them who they were, we make sure it’s not forgotten.

This is what sets Falconers Undertakers apart. This is why we do what we do.

A Unique Resource for Families – The Churches of Waterford
One of the hardest parts of planning a funeral is knowing where to start. That’s why we’ve created something completely unique in Ireland, our Churches of Waterford guide.

No other funeral directors in the country offer a resource like this. It helps families plan funeral routes, find the right church, and learn more about the places of worship that have been part of Waterford for generations.

If you need to find a church, or you simply want to know more about the incredible places where families gather to say their final goodbyes, you can visit our page here: Churches of Waterford.

Thank You for Being Part of This Journey

I never take for granted the trust families place in us. And this week, something incredible happened, Falconers Undertakers reached 1,000 followers on Facebook, making us the most followed funeral directors in Waterford.

This isn’t about numbers. It’s about the people behind them. It’s about the families who allow us to walk with them in their hardest moments, and the community that continues to support us.

So thank you. Thank you to every person who has followed us, supported us, shared our posts, and trusted us to take care of their loved ones. It means everything.

A special thank you to Michelle, who has done an incredible job with Star Kids Care Packs, helping children through loss in a way no other funeral director in Ireland does. Your work makes a difference, and we are proud to offer these packs to families when they need them most.

And finally, thank you to my family and friends who support everything we do at Falconers. Your belief in what we’re building keeps me going, especially on nights like this, when another family needs us, and I remind myself why this work matters.

Honouring Every Life, Every Step of the Way

For us, every detail matters. Every story is important. Every family deserves to be supported as if they were our own.

Because Family and Friends Remember is more than just words. It’s a tribute. It’s a promise. It’s a way to say: You were loved, you mattered, and you will never be forgotten.

If you ever need guidance, support, or simply someone to listen, Falconers Undertakers is here for you.

Because every life deserves to be remembered in the best possible way. Join our Facebook group here for more support.

Thank you for submitting the Funeral Wishes Form

This crucial tool helps ensure that your final arrangements reflect your personal choices, providing peace of mind and easing the emotional burden for your loved ones.

  • What Happens Next? Your dedicated funeral director will review your wishes and contact you to discuss the details further. We can arrange a meeting at your home or another location that suits you best, ensuring every aspect of your funeral is handled with care and respect.
  • Confirmation Summary: A summary of your funeral wishes form has been emailed to you for your records. Please review it and keep it safe, as it, along with copies sent to your next of kin, will guide us in preparing your personalised farewell.
  • Contact Us: For immediate assistance or any further queries, please call Erich Falconer at +353 868 475296. We are here to support you and ensure that everything is prepared according to your wishes.

Thank you for making our arranging a little easier

  • What Happens Next?
    Your dedicated funeral director will contact you to discuss your requirements in detail. They will review your choices and support you further in every way. We can attend your home or complete the arrangements in any way that suits you best.
  • Confirmation Summary:
    An email with a summary of your submission has been sent to you for your records. We will review your information and take care of everything else for you.
  • Contact Us:
    For immediate assistance, please call Erich Falconer at +353868475296